There are thousands of men out there that just cannot talk to women to make that initial connection to take it further, the best plan of action is to have confidence and “go get that girl” by learning how to talk to women.

 

A lot of guys struggle when first meeting girls, what should they talk about, the average guy when he converses with a woman, is just sailing in the wind hoping that something he says will ‘connect’ with the woman and magically make her fall for him.

 

There are thousands of men out there that just cannot talk to women to make that initial connection to take it further, the best plan of action is to have confidence and “go get that girl” by learning how to talk to women.

 

A lot of guys struggle when first meeting girls, what should they talk about, the average guy when he converses with a woman, is just sailing in the wind hoping that something he says will ‘connect’ with the woman and magically make her fall for him.

 

Have a definite plan on how to talk to women, you need to know what works and what doesn’t, so what do you talk about or more importantly what not to talk about, you need to be charming and in control.

 

There is no big secret on how to attract a woman, the first thing to remember is that men frequently talk too much, and often monopolize conversations, and think they are impressing the women when in reality they are boring her to tears.

 

The key on how to talk to girlsis do not talk so much, try not to monopolize the conversation and try to listen to what she has to say, just remember everyone is interested in what they themselves have to say, people will talk to you about themselves for as long as you will listen.

 

Pay particular attention to any free information she happens to throw your way, and by listening you will pick up on these scraps of information and can enlarge on this, if a woman likes you she will willingly give you free information to follow up on, but on the other hand if she is not attracted to you she won’t give you much of anything, and it will be very difficult to maintain a decent conversation with her, no matter how charming you are if she doesn’t help you out, you will eventually have to admit defeat and walk away, this is not the way on how to get girls.

 

If your goal is to charm this lady, you of course have got to tell her something about yourself, and if you have been listening and asking questions, then you will probably do very well, the conversation will take on a you-me twist and after, both will relax and connect with each other.

 

If you haven’t told her anything about yourself, she has no idea if she should be interested in you or not, yes she knows you don’t monopolize the conversation, and you’re a good listener and of course she will like that, but there is not enough to spark any kind of emotion in her if you are not forthcoming with something about yourself.

 

A spokesman for the Social Attraction Academy said “we help men to have confidence to approach women we offer help in a relaxed setting on how to pick up girls, and more importantly how to get a girlfriend”.  Gary Goldstein the founder of the Social Attraction Academy said “we work with the single man and show him how to change his belief system to make himself attractive on the inside, this is an important step on how to meet and attract women, we have a great success rate with our workshops that offer sessions on how to achieve more dates”.

 

For further information visit:  www.socialattraction.co.uk