Make yourself a better person. Instead of waiting for your soul mate to appear, make yourself apparent to him or her. Become the spectacular human being you want to be. Expressing your individuality is the closest you can come to advertising your soul mate potential. Not only will you stand out, but you'll also be doing things that are more likely to bring you closer to your soul mate, who probably has similar interests and goals.

 

Make yourself a better person. Instead of waiting for your soul mate to appear, make yourself apparent to him or her. Become the spectacular human being you want to be. Expressing your individuality is the closest you can come to advertising your soul mate potential. Not only will you stand out, but you'll also be doing things that are more likely to bring you closer to your soul mate, who probably has similar interests and goals.

Remember that your soul mate might not be what you expect. If there's only one person in the world who can be your soul mate, what are the chances that she'll live in your town, look like the people you grew up with, or even speak the same language? If you're expecting your soul mate to be love at first sight, you might never find what you're looking for. So keep an open mind. Part of the romance of having a soul mate is being pleasantly surprised.

Be patient. Fate doesn't work on a schedule. Your soul mate might cross your path when you're 8 or 80 years old. Yes, you might look forward to spending the majority of your life with your soul mate–perhaps buying a house, getting married, starting a family–but it may or may not be in the cards. A soul mate isn't always a life mate. Your soul mate will color your world no matter how old you are, so don't rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the soul mate box, which will cause pain for everyone involved.

Accept people for who they are, not who you want them to be. When you've got all these fantasies flying around in your head about how wonderful and special your soul mate will be, it can be easy to look for those specific characteristics and features in anyone you get involved with. Unfortunately, unrealistic expectations can ruin a relationship, and might even chase your soul mate away. Whoever it is that you think might be your soul mate, appreciate their individuality and trust that if this person is your soul mate, they'll never need to change who they are for you, just like you'll never need to change who you are for them.

Weather the storms. Contrary to what popular media would have you believe, meeting your soul mate doesn't guarantee "happily ever after." Things won't get easier when you find that special someone and in fact, they might get even harder. Ultimately, a soul mate is someone you can grow with, and the only way to grow together is to face challenges together. So if you put your heart and soul into a relationship, stick with it through the ups and downs, even when you question whether it's meant to be, and you might look back decades later and realize that you were with your soul mate all along.

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